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The Third Developmental Layer: Ego Identity, Power & the Roots of Shame

Kids Circle | Article Series


Between 18 months and 4 years, children are not just growing physically—they are forming the foundation of their ego identity. This is a sacred phase where the child begins to step out of pure dependency and into selfhood. The question that begins to shape their behavior is:

“Who am I, and how does my will impact the world around me?”

In this phase, toddlers begin to express clear preferences, assert independence, and test boundaries—not as defiance, but as early expressions of personal power.


They are learning:

  • Can I say no and still be loved?


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May 31, 2025 · updated the description of the group.

Articles on Childhood, Connection & Wholeness

A space to explore the unfolding world of children—with curiosity, compassion, and community.


The Heart of the Child Circle is a growing collection of articles focused on the developmental, emotional, and spiritual lives of children. Rooted in child-led learning, somatic awareness, and village-based parenting wisdom, these writings honor childhood as a sacred, embodied journey.


Each article invites you to look beneath behavior and into the heart of what a child is expressing—offering insight into their nervous system, relational needs, creativity, and sense of self.


Topics explore:

  • Emotional literacy and self-regulation in children

  • Developmental rhythms and nervous system insight

  • Somatic play, movement, and sensory exploration

  • Healing inherited patterns in how we see and respond to children

  • Supporting autonomy, imagination, and relational safety


At the end of each article, you’ll find reflective questions and prompts—offered as a way for members to share their thoughts, insights, or lived experiences.

This is not about fixing children—it’s about remembering how to truly see them. And in doing so, we remember parts of ourselves.

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